well you shouldn’t feel guilty first of all, these things are a part of life ! :) as you work your way through the bases you’ll be more comfortable with what you’re used to as long as it’s with a guy you trust. you do not wanna get into anything with a guy who’s going to fuck you over, or use you for sexual pleasure. been there, done that, and it’s not fun :( only do this if you know you’re ready! if you want to date him, get to know him first before you do anything sexual- there’s no substance in a relationship if you have nothing in common. another thing to look out for is a boy who threatens you with your love for him. if you’re not ready, and he says things like “if you loved me you’d do this with me”. that’s not a good guy! just keep doing what you’re doing, and amp up the flirtation a little bit! a smile is the simplest and most effective way of flirting, good luck! hope i helped sweetie:)